Before, I start with the content I would like to wish each and every one of you, A Very Happy Father’s Day. Today is the day to let your father know how much you love him, how much you care for him, how much he means to you, and you just can’t do without him. And no matter who stays and leaves your life you always need your -“”Dad””-.
My dad is indeed wonderful. I couldn’t have asked for a better father. Honestly speaking, I am actually not getting where to start from. A father has always been acknowledged as a girl’s first love and a son’s first hero. Not only is he my first love that he will always be- he is the most inspirational and approachable person I have in my life. I think he is the only person whom I love the most with all my heart-, and he knows me the best even if he doesn’t admit it. He understands the fact as to how emotional, sensitive or soft – hearted I am, and whenever I have cried a lot over anything in my life, he has always come to me and hugged me to tell me that he is worried then because he knows I am sensitive. Even if he doesn’t say it he is, and he also tells me that the impact of my crying remains in his behaviour for a week if not more wherein he is very upset but doesn’t show. As I am pretty hot – headed, I have fought with him many a times telling him my grievances, my anxieties, my problems, and troubles and blamed him a lot of times but he has always guided me well, tried to help and motivate me, has always taught me to fight telling me how strong a girl I have always been He has always taught me to be calm and think patiently, and he has always told, tells, and will keep on telling me that we as a family of four can’t do without each other, that even If one person is absent then the whole family will break, and that we as a family have to help each other in our problems. In other words, it is because of him that the family is one and it is because of him that we know so many good things.
During my failures – and trust me the list is not so short – even after reprimanding me he has always shown great faith in me, and, has always told me that if not today then tomorrow the lessons that I will learn from a particular failure will always act as an experience in making life’s decisions and, failures shall also become my reason for success which I might not realise today but are bound to realise sometime in my life. On the other hand-, during my days of success I haven’t seen a face happier than his. His happiness shows in the way he walks, talks, sits. Every time I do something good, I go and ask him: -“”Are you happy, and if yes, how much?””- He spreads his hands wide and says, -“”This much””- which always adds to my happiness.
He knows my favourite joints, my favourite colours and my fondness for clothes, books, and likes and dislikes. Even if, he doesn’t teach me for an exam but always comes at night to ask me before the day of my exam, -“”Are you fine?””- or -“”Are we good?””-, and reassures me of the fact that no matter what, I am bound to be a success in my life. He is very strict and can scold me many a times and be angry at me a number of times, but I know no one, and I really mean no one, can love and has loved me more than him. He has cried more than I did in my tears, smiled whenever I did, and has always been there, and he repents if he made me sad. Another interesting thing is that he still sometimes holds my hand when he has to get out of the car and cross the road, and I become very agitated because I am not a kid anymore but he always tells me, you will always be a kid for me and, that ‘Don’t try to act over smart’-, and whenever I tell him I want something he always gets it for me, may be my favourite magazine to my favourite ice – cream.
One final thing. I now realise I love my dad the most in this entire world, and he also loves me. It is just that he is unable to show or express that love sometimes. He is an awesome friend as well, and why only me? Many of us have lovely dads who love us and have faith in us when everyone else has lost it, and always get us the things we want. So, always love and respect your dad and be with him when he needs you-, and appreciate him and his achievements because he always tries to do the best for us. Have a great Father’s Day.